Band-It – Ways to help identify products

Hello Everyone,

I love a low tech product that really makes a difference. This product is one of those. Band It Identification Bands are so helpful around the house. I use many different ways to identify things when they look the same, like elastic bands, puff paint, placing them in a certain spot. These all work as well but they are not as easy as the Band It bands.

I have been trying these out for a few months now and have found them very helpful for not only myself but for my kids as well. It is nice to find a product that works great for me as someone who is blind but also can help my family members who are sighted.

Band It Identification Bands are tactile bands that help you to identify things. They each have a different tactile marker on them from diamonds, squares, circles, lines and flat circles. They are also brightly coloured for those that have low vision. They are very flexible and durable which is nice, I found when I was using elastic bands they would wear down and break where as these do not do that.

I have been using them in the kitchen, the phot is of two jars that are the same size and shape one is beef bouillon and the other is chicken bouillon I had always struggled to know which one was which quickly. I would have to get out my phone and use an app that would read them for me or ask my kids or husband. Which these I am able to tell the difference just by grabbing the jar which is great.

Another use that I have been really enjoying is in the shower with my shampoo and conditioner, with the Band It’s it is easily identified even when everything is wet.

One thing that so many have trouble with is cleaning products, I use Method cleaning products and love them but all the bottles are the same shape and size. Now with the bands I am able to put different ones on the cleaners that I want to identify quickly. Here I have it on the window cleaner.

I said early that my family is able to use them as well, especially my kids. They have water bottles that are the same and are always trying to remember which one is who’s. Then the fight starts about I put mine there no I put mine there so now we are able to use the Band It’s they can put them where ever they want, and not fight about whose is whose.

Technology is amazing but it is really nice to have a product that does not mean I have to have my phone in my hand at all times. These Band It Identification Bands are very helpful and I am happy to have had the opportunity to try these and want to Thank Band It for sending them to me.

Happy New Year !

Hello Everyone,

This past year has been a crazy rides of ups and downs, there were times when I thought this year can disappear anytime now. Then I was reminded that those are the years that are the greatest the ones where you have many ups and downs and you come out on top and make it through.

I am always striving for more in my life and to do better and this year as we quietly brought in the new year with my kids and husband, I was reminded that I have goals and things that I want to achieve and that is good but I have to remember to cherish what I have now and what I have accomplished thus far. We tend to compare ourselves to others so readily and easily, social media makes this so easy. But we forget that people don’t often post their struggles and the bad times, they post what makes it look like they have all their sh*t together when in reality they are in just as deep or farther than you.

I can find myself getting sucked into the comparison so easily, I see people posting about their hot holidays and automatically think “man I wish I could go on vacation” but the reality is, I hate the heat and don’t have any desire to go on a hot holiday in the winter. Yet when I see these posts I can find myself comparing my “boring” life to others and that is just not what I want to do. The reality is that I have an amazing life, is it boring? You bet, but it is my boring and I love sitting and reading too many books, crocheting and drinking coffee with my kids running around screaming and fighting (maybe I could do without the fighting) and my husband here with me. I enjoy the chaos of going to work everyday and trying to get everything in that I need to and then squeeze in my classes on top of it.

Is my blog booming and have millions of followers, nope, is my YouTube channel taking off, nope but that isn’t why I started. I started because I wanted to share my life with people and show them that my life is just as normal as theirs was even though I am blind.

2019 is going to be a great year, there are going to be ups and downs. I don’t do resolutions they have never worked for me in the past and always had something to do with me changing something about me. But this year I am just going to remember to enjoy the ride.

I would also like to take the time to thank all of you for your support over the last year. The reason I do this is because of all of you. You are a great community of support for myself and others who are struggling or just trying to get through. so  thank you and I hope that your 2019 is fantastic!

Until Next Time

Ashley and Danson

Guide Dog Training Week 3

Hello Everyone,

As my training came to a close I was excited to be on our own and terrified to be on our own. This week was something that was invaluable to me. Danson and I flew home with a trainer from Ottawa and that was amazing. To have someone there with you, to help support you so that if something went wrong you were not alone, was something that I am just so thankful for.

It may seem a little weird that I am so thankful for the week of training and someone to accompany me home when I had already qualified as a team with Danson. The thing is that Danson and I did our training in a unfamiliar environment and although we spent 2 weeks together I didn’t know him that well. I did not know how he would react on a flight and in a busy airport. Same with when we got home I had no idea how he would fit in to our home and would he settle in well. There were so many unknowns.

Danson was a great flier and he did so well. The sandwich myself and the trainer bought at the Toronto airport for $15 each was not terrific at all but Danson made up for that disgusting sandwich. (I can not express how gross this sandwich was). We had two flights one was an hour and the other was three hours and on both he did really well.

Once we landed in our home city and met up with my husband the real work started. Danson was excited to be off the plane and get to go pee. Once we got home he did really well with my three children and seemed to settle in pretty well for the night. The trainer accompanied us to my house to make sure that the first meetings went well and he started to settle.

In the morning myself and the trainers did some routes around my home and it felt really good to be in our home area and working. I could feel the freedom and confidence building with each step.

The week was full of lots of work with the trainer and my orientation and mobility specialist to make sure that we knew our routes to places like work, my kids school, and some other places I frequent regularly. There were times when I was in my head and felt lost and other times when I felt like I had this and we were rocking it. Having those times when I felt like I was lost and not doing great and questioning everything was such a blessing to have the trainer and my O&M with me, supporting me and reassuring me.

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As the week came to a close and we were packing a bag to attend our graduation in Toronto and then fly off to a work event in Vancouver I was nervous knowing there were going to be times when it was hard, but I was excited that we had finished it and made it through all of the emotion good and bad together.

It is hard to go through such a roller coaster of emotion with a dog and not come out of it feeling like he is truly a part of you. Through the good and the bad he will be there by my side guiding me through it all.

I am beyond grateful for all of the support of the CNIB and the CNIB Guide Dog team. The success of myself and Danson is because of the support that we received along the way.

We are now on our own and will be updating you on our adventures as they come, the good the bad and the ugly. And I am sure there will be some of all.

Until Next Time !

Ashley and Danson

Guide Dog Training Week 2

Hello Everyone,

The second week of training really kicked things into high gear and Danson and I had a lot of hard work to do. It isn’t easy trusting a new guide dog and learning their personality, and hoping that they like you enough to want to work for you. The whole training process is not only physically tiring but more than that it is emotionally exhausting.

The Sunday of training we were so lucky to be able to attend the Remembrance Day service in Ottawa near Parliament Hill. This was my first time attending and there were thousands of people everywhere. I know for me anxiety creeps up when I am going somewhere new and now you add in a brand new guide dog and you better believe that I was on edge.

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Photo Description: Black lab sitting in harness on the sidewalk with the parliament buildings behind him in Ottawa, Ontario.

This was a great opportunity for me to be a part of a memorable service that I am so grateful to have been given the opportunity to attend but also to see how Danson would do in large crowds and navigating a large event like this.

It was cold and he rocked it, I was able to walk through the crowd with a lot of excuse us, pardon me as he found the straight line and kept us moving in the right direction. It felt so good to be able to navigate a crowd like that with him. When he was working so well and really just rocking it like there was no worry about the people, I could feel myself calm and my confidence start to build and it felt amazing.

They did a fly over at the ceremony and there were also bag pipes so it was great to see how Danson would do in an environment with those kinds of noises and of course he did great.

On Monday there were many firsts for me again and I was so nervous going in and for good reason! We hopped on the train in Ottawa and went to Montreal. This was my first time going to Montreal and I am again so thankful for the experience. We did some work around down town and were working again in an unfamiliar environment and Danson did great. Then the highlight of the day came the big event, (well for me). We met up at the Subway and were going to take the Subway around the city to expose ourselves to it and see how our dogs would work in that environment.

Photo Description – Photo 1: front of the Via Rail train on the tracks approaching the camera.

Photo 2: Black lab laying on the tiled floor looking very tired. (This photo is from the end of the day at the Starbucks in the train station after the subway and everything. He did amazing but was quite pooped)

I have never been on a Subway, I live in Saskatchewan I mean the closest thing to being on a subway we get is driving a tractor down a grid road. So needless to say I was nervous.

When we entered the subway station I was met with a huge amount of people all in such a hurry that I am sure they were all heading to some sort of emergency and then I the sound of the subway coming in came. That was a new experience for me and I can tell you right now that that sound erased all sense of where I was for me. It was so disorientating it was like everything around me disappeared and it was kind of terrifying. Just as I would get my bearings back and feel a little better another train would come in. I hated every minute of it.

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Photo 1: city skyline at night

Photo 2: black lab sitting looking at me as I sit on a bench and look down at him. **Photo Credit to CNIB Guide Dogs.

Kudos to those of you who do this on a regular basis, this is not for me and I would be good if I never have to do it agin. But I did learn that Danson is not fazed by it at all and would be able to get me where I needed to go in any situation.

The rest of the week was filled with light rail rides, bus travel, indoor work in the mall and more routes around Ottawa. With the support of the amazing CNIB Guide Dog team I was able to really learn how Danson works and learn to trust him and listen to what he is doing. The support that the trainers give is invaluable and I will forever be grateful to all trainers and what they are able to do with the dogs but also what they are able to do with the clients and how they can make the transition to a new dog feel like it is so seamless.

On Thursday November 15th 2018 Danson and I did our qualifying walk with the program manager and we passed and it felt amazing to know that through all the emotions and hard work we were able to come together and work as a team. Training did not end there we had one more week to go.

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Photo 1: Black lab sitting with his head on my knee and his paw on my leg beside his nose with his eyes half closed. (I was feeling the same way at the end of this day)

Photo 2: Black lab laying his head on the neck of yellow lab on the floor near a table (this is Danson’s brother they love each other)

Photo 3: black lab and yellow lab sitting next to each other in the back of a van looking at the camera. (This is Danson’s brother again)

The second week of training for me was probably the hardest and I found myself up and down and really on a emotional rollercoaster. I felt nervous at moments, terrified at others, ecstatic and everything in between. I was also struggling with the emotions of getting a new dog after losing another. I found myself almost getting scared to go home because I didn’t want to have to put myself in a situation where I would have to retire another dog because of someone else’s impatience or stupidity. And to this day I am still struggling with that, those emotions are still very raw and real; and most of all hard.

Until Next Time

Ashley and Danson

Guide Dog Training Week 1

Hello Everyone,

I am happy to say that I am now with my second guide dog. The process to building a relationship with a guide dog and learning to work with a different guide can be a challenging one. There are many things that happen on training and it can be intense. I am going to walk you through my training and how I was feeling during training.

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*Photo credit to CNIB Guide Dogs 
Photo Description: black lab sitting with the silhouette of his handler Ashley behind him.

I arrived on Sunday and got settled, it was a long travel day but I was so excited to be arriving at class and to get started training. I never slept much the night before I left and I certainly did not sleep with the excitement that on Monday there would be a knock on my door; and my second guide dog would be on the other side.

After the knock on the door and my guide dog came in the room, it was real and I knew I could finally take a deep breath because I was going to have a harness handle in my hand again. It is a lot of emotions, excitement, happiness, gratitude, but a little fear as well. This dog doesn’t know me, he has never worked for me, will he like me? Will we work well together? Can I learn to work with him without comparing him to my last guide dog?

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** Photo credit to CNIB Guide Dogs 
Photo Description:: Woman sitting on a couch wearing a hooded sweatshirt and sun glasses while a black lab lays at her feet sleeping on a white dog bed.

We started the process of learning our guide dogs, getting to know them and helping them to get to know us. Healing them and doing some obedience and easing into guide work. I really enjoyed the slow ease into the guide work so that when I did pick up the handle I knew him a little better, he knew me a little better.

On our first walk together it felt amazing to have a harness handle in my hand and walk down the street with confidence (well a little bit of confidence) and know that this was the start to an amazing partnership.

The first week was amazing and exhausting. It is long days and lots of learning. We worked in the mall, in a park, on the sidewalks, lighted crossings, uncontrolled crossings, audible crossings, coffee shops, buses and so much more. We were also given the opportunity to attend the National Remembrance Day Service in Ottawa which was amazing. With it being the 100 year anniversary of WWI and 100 years of CNIB. Especially since guide dogs and the CNIB came out of the WWI. My guide dog did amazing in the thousands of people, the gun shots, the cold, and even with the fly over. It was an overwhelming experience for me and him but we supported each other and it was a great feeling.

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** Photo credit to CNIB Guide Dogs
Photo Description: Woman wearing a blue sweatshirt and jean  sitting on the floor with a black lab laying between her legs on a white dog bed while she uses a roller to give him a massage.

There really are not words for how it feels to work with a guide dog and the bond that builds each and every day as you learn to trust each other fully. I am on cloud 9 this whole week while at the same time being so scared. It is a life changing few weeks that is for sure.

The one thing that makes all the difference when you are in class and training with a new dog and feeling all sorts of emotions, is having an amazing team  behind you. With the CNIB Guide Dog program I had the best team ever behind me and that makes all the difference.

Stay tuned for week 2 and 3!

Until Next Time

Ashley and Danson

It is ok to say you want it….

The last couple of years I have really found my confidence and my voice in so many different situations. I have learned that it is ok to go after the things that I want and it is ok to say what you want. I have always thought that it wasn’t ok to say what I wanted and where I wanted to go. But boy has that changed…….

I have worked too hard to get to where I am today to sit back and hope things happen for me. And why should I? The answer is I shouldn’t and neither should you. When you stand up and say what you want it does not mean you are pushy or entitled. It means that you have dreams, aspirations and goals and you are not afraid to do what it takes to achieve them.

I have been working full time and have made it known where I want to go within the organization and I have been doing everything I can to make that happen. When someone asks me “where do you see yourself in 5 years?” I have the answer ready for them and I tell them with confidence.

I am taking a degree that will get me where I want to go and show that I want it and show that I am willing to work for it. And boy am I having to work…. doing a degree and working full time with three kids was probably a bad idea. But it is a good thing I usually just say “Yes” to almost anything.

Saying “Yes” is my other way to get to where I want to go; when an opportunity knocks on my door I say “yes”. There are times when I have thought why on earth did I say yes to that, but in the end it has gotten me one step closer to my goal.

In most cases things do not just happen to people for no reason, they happen because you worked your butt off for them and had the balls to stand up and say to your boss, “my goal for the next five years is to have your job.” If I had someone working for me and they told me they wanted my job and that was their goal I would give them a high five and say “go get it.”

I know my worth and I know I deserve everything that has happened to me and that does not make me stuck up or a golden child it makes me strong, independent and it says I have goals that I am going to achieve.

When we grow up with a disability sometimes we can think that we are not worth what someone who is “normal” is worth. But your disability gives you skills and knowledge that no one else can offer and makes you stand out, and gives your the drive to do what needs to be done. I think it is a bonus that should be used.

Until Next Time

Ashley

Am I Getting A New Guide ? Living Without A Guide….

My Guide Dog was forced to retire after being hit by a cyclist. I have been without a guide dog since June 28, 2018 and it has been a challenge for me. I was a cane user for a long time I remember getting my first white cane in High School and hating it and thinking about getting a guide dog and then decided not too. When I lost all of my vision there was no way I could be as independent as I wanted with a white cane, it did not suit my life and how I wanted to live.

I made the decision to get a guide dog in 2013 and was matched with my amazing first guide Rick in September 2014. This was a life changing thing for me and I was really able to live the life that I wanted despite doing it totally blind.

The last 4 months have been hard I found myself avoiding places because of anxiety and just not feeling confident enough to go alone. I was too proud to ask for someone to go with me so I would just not go, I have worked hard and gained some of my confidence back and have done things that I never thought I would do with a cane and it has not held me back but it has reminded me that there is a part of me missing.

I am happy (more like over the moon) and excited to let everyone know that I am getting a new guide dog!! I have been so extremely lucky to have been chosen to be a part of the CNIB Guide Dog program. I will be heading into class in the near future. This time has been a very exciting one but it has also been a time of emotions I was not expecting.

When I went to get Rick there was a lot of emotions like fear, anxiousness, happiness, and so many other things. I thought when I went to get my second guide I would not feel those same feelings to the same extent but I have been taken back by all those feelings coming back.

I have been feeling scared and overwhelmed with the thought of trusting a new guide dog with my life. I think after the incident that happened with Rick my first guide dog it has actually made that worse because I am terrified to be in that position again. But I also know that there is a part of me missing and that part is a harness in my hand and a guide dog by my side.

I have also felt guilty for getting a new guide dog, almost like I am cheating on Rick. I feel guilty for moving on and heading into a class without him. I always knew that Rick was going to have to retire at some point, I never thought it would be so early and I was heart broken. I don’t think there are any words to describe the bond that I had with Rick and still to this day do. I find myself with tears in my eyes just thinking about him, knowing he is not with me anymore. The only saving grace for me is that he is loved by his family just as much as I love him. They handed the leash over to me 4 years ago and I have handed it back to them because they are an amazing family and his forever home. He will always hold a special place in my heart and life.

My personal choice is to have a guide dog; that is when I feel like I am the most confident and unstoppable. I love the feeling of flying down the sidewalk with my adorable doggie wagging his tail on a mission to where ever we want to go, no questions asked.

I will be documenting my journey and how it all plays out, stay tuned for an update on my new guide dog and my training process. As well as the name and picture of the amazing guide I will be matched with.

Until Next Time,

Ashley and future guide dog